May 2nd, 2010

It’s never too early to begin talking with your children about things they’ll need to know as they enter the world of peer pressure. Things like integrity, responsibility, and trustworthiness…drugs, tobacco, and alcohol…and yes, even sex education. (Don’t panic! You can do this.)

While it’s normal to feel uncomfortable talking with your children about tough issues, it’s unwise to put it off. Children are facing peer pressure much earlier than we anticipate, and if you don’t establish yourself as the “go-to” source for information, someone else will.

Talking with your children everyday will strengthen your relationship and increase the level of trust, making it easier for your child to approach you when they’re ready to engage in a touchy subject.

Arm yourself with current facts and suggested talking techniques, then take that first step. The websites listed below provide useful information to help you teach your child about choices that will keep them safe, healthy and happy:

Drugs, Alcohol, Tobacco

· Talk With Kids

· Drugs & Youth

· Tobacco & Youth

· “Alcohol, Tobacco & Other Drug Prevention” (after clicking on this link, find report  #FS1461, located second from the bottom of the list)

Values & Virtues

· Values Parenting

· The Virtues Project

Sex Education

· Focus On the Family.com

· Mayo Clinic.com